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Best Child Abuse

A Child Called It: One Child's Courage to Survive
It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother: a mother who played tortuous, unpredictable games--games that left him nearly dead. This book is a brief, horrifying account of the bizarre tortures she inflicted on him, told from the point of view of the author as a young boy being starved, stabbed, smashed face-first into mirrors, forced to eat the contents of his sibling's diapers and a spoonful of ammonia, and burned over a gas stove by a maniacal, alcoholic mom.
Reviews
"This book has started an inner healing process.As I started reading, I started crying, crying so loudly that I started wailing."
"This book helped know that I was never alone in what I went through as a child."
"A girl I worked with told me about this book one day, and I decided I wanted to check it out."
"This book is a healing power to me, since I never have the mind to open up to Any body what i suffered during my stay with My aunty."
"I read this book years ago."
"Love this book."
"The child in the story had a good life for his first four years and then the abuse started. To have had a good life with loving parents then allo of a sudden you start being abused."
"I had read all of the Dave Pelzer books."
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Spilled Milk: Based On A True Story
Brooke Nolan is a battered child who makes an anonymous phone call about the escalating brutality in her home. When social services jeopardize her safety condemning her to keep her father’s secret, it’s a glass of spilled milk at the dinner table that forces her to speak about the cruelty she’s been hiding. When jury members and a love interest congregate to inspire her to fight, she risks losing the support of family and comes to the realization that some people simply do not want to be saved. Several colleges and high schools have incorporated the novel into their lesson plans and I've received tons of feedback from my voracious fans- I knew I needed to come out with a more polished and professional edition that was appropriate for the education system, my fans, and in general. Randis, author of bestselling novel Spilled Milk and thePillbillies series, started journaling at the age of six and had shortstories and poetry published by the time she was thirteen.She is a graduate of Pennsylvania State University and a certifiedexpert in the field of domestic violence. Randis engages audiences on a local and national level to raise awareness about child abuse, serving as a frequent commentator to media outlets.
Reviews
"I learned about several cases of incest in Pennsylvania when I was younger and I often wondered about the victims and how they were able to process what happened to them."
"If you don’t like sad books, you may not enjoy it however, if you want a huge realization of life then DIG IN!"
"This book, for me, was one I couldn't put down.."
"What a FANTASTIC book! If you don't, I highly recommend that you read it anyway."
"This was a sad, heart wrenching tale, yet written in such a way that the reader was filled with hope."
"I felt I was reading what I would rate as a 3 to 4 star book but my whole perception changed when I got up a 3 a.m. so I could finish it."
"A lot of us close our eyes and turn our backs to frightening things that were written about in this book."
"Sometimes bad things happen to good people and that thought breaks my heart."
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The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog: And Other Stories from a Child Psychiatrist's Notebook--What Traumatized Children Can Teach Us About Loss, Love, and Healing
In the classic The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog , Dr. Perry explains what happens to the brains of children exposed to extreme stress and shares their lessons of courage, humanity, and hope. Each child, from the seven-year-old who offered him sexual favors to the eponymous boy who spent his early years living in a dog cage, taught Perry something about the effects of early childhood trauma on brain development.
Reviews
"This book provides insight and understanding to the often confusing experiences and behaviors seen in pediatric trauma related behavioral disturbances."
"I also bought his other book.. Trauma informed and that was a well written book.."
"It really underscores the importance of proper parenting skills, better understanding of problem children, and the importance of lots of love and hugs in the home and schools."
"The stories in this book were compelling and gave me a little more insight into trauma’s impact on brain development."
"I absolutely loved this book."
"This is a wonderful book to read if you are fostering or adopting a child and if you are working with children."
"So if we are to be successful human adults, we must first learn all the mental and emotional skills that are ideally learned by human children during "normal" development, and usually in roughly the same order that most children learn them in, since the skills that older children typically learn frequently depend on skills that they previously learned in addition to physical and mental development. The part about human societies developing the leisure to develop language and government is my own addition of what I see as the logical next step in the human story, and I hope to find that book if it has been written, or encourage someone to write it some day as a logical extension of this author's work on human development."
"This is a must read for professionals working with children who have been exposed to abuse and/or neglect."
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Best Abuse Self-Help

The Gift of Fear and Other Survival Signals that Protect Us From Violence
In this empowering book, Gavin de Becker, the man Oprah Winfrey calls the nation's leading expert on violent behavior, shows you how to spot even subtle signs of danger—before it's too late. Shattering the myth that most violent acts are unpredictable, de Becker, whose clients include top Hollywood stars and government agencies, offers specific ways to protect yourself and those you love, including...how to act when approached by a stranger...when you should fear someone close to you...what to do if you are being stalked...how to uncover the source of anonymous threats or phone calls...the biggest mistake you can make with a threatening person...and more. Author Gavin de Becker says victims of violent behavior usually feel a sense of fear before any threat or violence takes place. A leading expert on predicting violent behavior, de Becker believes we can all learn to recognize these signals of the "universal code of violence," and use them as tools to help us survive. The book teaches how to identify the warning signals of a potential attacker and recommends strategies for dealing with the problem before it becomes life threatening. People don't just "snap" and become violent, says de Becker, whose clients include federal government agencies, celebrities, police departments, and shelters for battered women. Gavin de Becker : Your question contains much of the answer: today’s world, "where terror and tragedy seem omnipresent..." The key word is "seem." When TV news coverage presents so much on these topics, it elevates the perception of terrorism and tragedy way beyond the reality. In every major city, TV news creates forty hours of original production every day, most of it composed and presented to get our attention with fear. Question: Your bestselling book The Gift of Fear gives many examples to help readers recognize what you call pre-incident indicators (PINS) of violence. If intuition is used by a woman to explain some choice she made or a concern she can’t let go of, men roll their eyes and write it off. We much prefer logic, the grounded, explainable, unemotional thought process that ends in a supportable conclusion.
Reviews
"As research has shown, what we call women's intuition is in reality the fact that women, on average, are far better at picking up nonverbal cues than men. fMRI scans reveal women use 14-16 regions of their brains during communication, while men only 4-6 areas (most women probably would dispute giving us that much credit-:). In modern society, in the interest of being "polite", we often suppress our natural intuition, our gut feelings. One of my great fears has to do with my beautiful wife's suppression of her natural intuition around strangers, in the interest of being polite and non-judgemental. Gavin de Becker's loud message to women, Trust your gut, Don't suppress your intuition, Don't worry about hurting some stranger's feelings is a powerful one."
"Titled "Survival Signals" this chapter will teach you the sophisticated manipulations that criminal predators use to try and gain control over you. There is much more detail in this chapter, and I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to recognize these "interviewing techniques" that criminal predators use."
"I would recommend this book to everyone who knows a human being that they feel 'weird' about."
"This opens yourself up to using all of your innate tools that you can use to safeguard yourself, from abusive relationships, to stranger attacks, to workplace violence."
"I believe this book should be required reading in our schools."
"Great book!"
"This information is wonderful for both males and females; although, I think. women would get the most out of this book."
"Gavin de Becker not only shares the wisdom he has gained through his work, but also his experiences."
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Best Pornography

The Road Through Wonderland: Surviving John Holmes (5 Year Anniversary)
Painstakingly honest, this chilling memoir reveals how a teenager became immersed in the bizarre life of legendary porn star John Holmes. The 2003 movie Wonderland vivified Schiller's teenage experience under the thrall of a drug-addled porn star in L.A. in the late 1970s, while this long docudrama expands on that raw era to include her peripatetic, dysfunctional upbringing and aftermath as a survivor. The daughter of a Vietnam vet and a German woman he met and married overseas, Schiller spent her early years moving around to accommodate her father's military career, especially between New Jersey and the suburbs of Miami. Instead, Schiller, who met Holmes in 1976 when she was just 15, details their five-year love affair, the stability he provided in the wake of her troubled childhood, and the deterioration of their relationship after Homes became addicted to cocaine and was ultimately arrested.
Reviews
"Just wow this certainly had my attention a intense case of Stockholm syndrome as dawn same name as me shares a birthday with my significant other and came from New Jersey where I live consider my mind blown as this story takes readers from the happiest of times to the worst of times with a legendary porn star as he corrupts her innocence and ruins her for his enjoyment."
"Starting cautiously with a sample first, I was drawn in by the frank, consistent and honest writing by the author, Dawn Schiller, and I bought this book with great interest."
"For anyone interested in the long term effects of dysfunctional childhoods, look up the sobering long-term study - Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) Study, through the Center for Disease Control's website."
"It gives great detail into her early family life and how at 15, she met John Holmes who would ultimately bring her great love and everlasting pain."
"One that any love-struck teenager can relate to when after the fairy tale has worn off, it's a nightmare."
"Without much in the way of parental supervision or familial support, she found herself in the sights of the landlord of the people she was "crashing" with. You have to take memoirs with a grain of salt, but she is pretty good in depicting her personal thoughts as she was taken down that "road," and why she made her choices."
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Best Sibling Relationships

Etched in Sand: A True Story of Five Siblings Who Survived an Unspeakable Childhood on Long Island
Regina’s Calcaterra memoir, Etched in Sand , is an inspiring and triumphant coming-of-age story of tenacity and hope. In this story of perseverance in the face of adversity, Regina Calcaterra recounts her childhood in foster care and on the streets—and how she and her savvy crew of homeless siblings managed to survive years of homelessness, abandonment, and abuse. Regina Calcaterra's emotionally powerful memoir reveals how she endured a series of foster homes and intermittent homelessness in the shadow of the Hamptons, and how she rose above her past while fighting to keep her brother and three sisters together.
Reviews
"I've read other memoirs along these lines as well, but this is by far the most incredible abuse I've ever read about. As a book, the writing is amazing. There's a time toward the end where it slows down a little, but that's a welcome change after the intensity throughout the rest of the book."
"This was a great book and I was so impressed by how these kids were able to make something of their lives even with how hard their childhood was."
"I chose five stars because the author adeptly wrote a story of her family with openness and honesty."
"This book was riveting."
"A true story that opens your eyes to the horrors of life that children in our own society must deal with."
"I've heard from foster parents about the difficulty of raising children from dysfunctional homes and commend the good foster parent's their patience and understanding."
"The author receives the harshest abuse as the mother was hurt the most by her bio father."
"In addition, the story reminds us that there are "helpers" along the way."
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Best Family & Personal Growth

The Success Principles(TM) - 10th Anniversary Edition: How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be
Get ready to transform yourself for success with #1 New York Times bestselling author Jack Canfield! Praise for the first Edition of The Success Principles: “Canfield’s principles are simple, but the results you’ll achieve will be extraordinary!” (Anthony Robbins, author of Awaken the Giant Within and Unlimited Power). “If you could read only one book this year, you have it in your hands.” (Harvey Mackay, author of the New York Times #1 bestseller Swim with the Sharks without Being Eaten Alive). “I have personally learned a lot from Jack Canfield and I trust you will too.” (John Gray, Ph.., author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus). Since its publication a decade ago, Jack Canfield's practical and inspiring guide has become a classic that has helped hundreds of thousands of people achieve success. The Success Principles ™ will teach you how to increase your confidence, tackle daily challenges, live with passion and purpose, and realize all your ambitions. Not merely a collection of good ideas, this book spells out the 67 timeless principles and practices used by the world's most successful men and women.
Reviews
"First, he lost his millions including his friend and went broke and in debt after reading the book what he learn from his employer is opposite on the book. Believe it or not I learn to maintain my prayer, meditation, my intuition as I learn from the book, the Dr. formula of events, my core genius, the yellow alert that is how I discover Law of Attraction after reading the book on February and end after 2 or 3 weeks."
"this is the perfect book if you want complete success."
"This one book is a very complete "collection" of the many principles that have been around for a long time; it is the most Complete Collection I know of."
"Excellent book!"
"Excellent read great read for anyone who want to learn the steps to improve their quality on life I enjoyed the read although its a lot but trust me its worth the read my life changed from read this book!"
"Even before I have finished reading the book, my husband and I are seeing the Law of Attraction in work. My husband and I were able to renegotiate a contract (that had come to an end), with a 50% increase over the previous amount. A client that was closing down distribution points throughout the Caribbean due to the slow down in business, reconsidered and allowed us to continue, after we were able to show them the benefits to them of keeping our distribution point."
"I have the original version and it's worth every penny."
"This book is filled from cover to cover with practical advice for making positive changes in your life."
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Best Regional U.S. Biographies

Same Kind of Different As Me
A dangerous, homeless drifter who grew up picking cotton in virtual slavery. An upscale art dealer accustomed to the world of Armani and Chanel. It begins outside a burning plantation hut in Louisiana . Gritty with pain and betrayal and brutality, this true story also shines with an unexpected, life-changing love. An MBA graduate of Texas Christian University, he divides his time between Dallas, New York, and his Brazos River ranch near Fort Worth.
Reviews
"I appreciated that the faith dimension of the story was not handled manipulatively, but in a matter of fact way: This is how the narrators experienced the spiritual dimension of their story."
"It was an easy read and definitely gave me a clearer picture of legalized slavery and share cropping in the south post civil war."
"This was a great read!"
"As the story first begun I was confused because they didn’t label the chapters with the name of the speaker."
"I teach adult male offenders in the Texas prison system after careers in health care and child protective services."
"I loved this book!"
"The movie was a good teaser for an incredible book about people & faith; it's something I'll read again to calibrate my outlook on life."
"I read it every minute I had a chance."
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Best Dysfunctional Relationships

Spilled Milk: Based On A True Story
Brooke Nolan is a battered child who makes an anonymous phone call about the escalating brutality in her home. When social services jeopardize her safety condemning her to keep her father’s secret, it’s a glass of spilled milk at the dinner table that forces her to speak about the cruelty she’s been hiding. When jury members and a love interest congregate to inspire her to fight, she risks losing the support of family and comes to the realization that some people simply do not want to be saved. Several colleges and high schools have incorporated the novel into their lesson plans and I've received tons of feedback from my voracious fans- I knew I needed to come out with a more polished and professional edition that was appropriate for the education system, my fans, and in general. Randis, author of bestselling novel Spilled Milk and thePillbillies series, started journaling at the age of six and had shortstories and poetry published by the time she was thirteen.She is a graduate of Pennsylvania State University and a certifiedexpert in the field of domestic violence. Randis engages audiences on a local and national level to raise awareness about child abuse, serving as a frequent commentator to media outlets.
Reviews
"I learned about several cases of incest in Pennsylvania when I was younger and I often wondered about the victims and how they were able to process what happened to them."
"If you don’t like sad books, you may not enjoy it however, if you want a huge realization of life then DIG IN!"
"This book, for me, was one I couldn't put down.."
"What a FANTASTIC book! If you don't, I highly recommend that you read it anyway."
"This was a sad, heart wrenching tale, yet written in such a way that the reader was filled with hope."
"I felt I was reading what I would rate as a 3 to 4 star book but my whole perception changed when I got up a 3 a.m. so I could finish it."
"A lot of us close our eyes and turn our backs to frightening things that were written about in this book."
"Sometimes bad things happen to good people and that thought breaks my heart."
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Best Western U.S. Biographies

A Child Called It: One Child's Courage to Survive
It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother: a mother who played tortuous, unpredictable games--games that left him nearly dead. This book is a brief, horrifying account of the bizarre tortures she inflicted on him, told from the point of view of the author as a young boy being starved, stabbed, smashed face-first into mirrors, forced to eat the contents of his sibling's diapers and a spoonful of ammonia, and burned over a gas stove by a maniacal, alcoholic mom.
Reviews
"This book has started an inner healing process.As I started reading, I started crying, crying so loudly that I started wailing."
"This book helped know that I was never alone in what I went through as a child."
"A girl I worked with told me about this book one day, and I decided I wanted to check it out."
"This book is a healing power to me, since I never have the mind to open up to Any body what i suffered during my stay with My aunty."
"I read this book years ago."
"Love this book."
"The child in the story had a good life for his first four years and then the abuse started. To have had a good life with loving parents then allo of a sudden you start being abused."
"I had read all of the Dave Pelzer books."
Find Best Price at Amazon