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Best Gay & Lesbian Activism

When We Rise: My Life in the Movement
Jones found community--in the hotel rooms and ramshackle apartments shared by other young adventurers, in the city's bathhouses and gay bars like The Stud, and in the burgeoning gay district, the Castro, where a New York transplant named Harvey Milk set up a camera shop, began shouting through his bullhorn, and soon became the nation's most outspoken gay elected official. He chronicles the heartbreak of losing countless friends to AIDS, which very nearly killed him, too; his co-founding of the San Francisco AIDS Foundation during the terrifying early years of the epidemic; his conception of the AIDS Memorial Quilt, the largest community art project in history; the bewitching story of 1970s San Francisco and the magnetic spell it cast for thousands of young gay people and other misfits; and the harrowing, sexy, and sometimes hilarious stories of Cleve's passionate relationships with friends and lovers during an era defined by both unprecedented freedom and and violence alike. "You could read Cleve Jones's book because you should know about the struggle for gay, lesbian, and transgender rights from one of its key participants-maybe heroes--but really, you should read it for pleasure and joy. When We Rise is about the building of a movement--and the building of Cleve Jones, who came to San Francisco as a teenage adventurer and transformed into an activist whose contributions helped change the course of gay history. "Cleve Jones is a history buff who has himself become part of history. Now, in When We Rise , Cleve takes us along on his personal journey in the fight for equal rights--a journey filled with humor, sadness, love and ultimately profound change. The story Cleve Jones tells-of a bullied boy from the sun-blasted Arizona suburbs, who finds an extended family among the street kids of San Francisco and then within the gay movement that revolutionized the world-is thrilling to read. "Jones takes readers on his thrilling, if perilous, voyage from fey, long-haired teen hitching his way from his home in Arizona to San Francisco, to becoming the mentee of Harvey Milk ... Jones survives San Francisco's viciously homophobic police in the '70s and, later, the AIDS epidemic that took his dearest friends.
Reviews
"I lived in San Francisco for this tumultuous period and Cleve Jones was at that time recognized as a Gay Icon who worked with Harvey Milk and George Moscone."
"The book tells the story of what it was like to be a young gay man in the late 60s who moved to San Francisco and witnessed the struggle for our rights and the AIDS holocaust up close and personal."
"This would be an good personal history of the early days of the gay rights movement and the AIDS epidemic if Jones edited out most of the earth-moving sex that he had with every "gorgeous man" and " cute boy" that came within range of his gaydar."
"This was definitely a page turner for me, I couldn't put it down."
"This book is a must-read for all young LGBTQ+ audiences."
"At turns sad, funny, gut wrenching and uplifting, When We Rise chronicles a microcosm in the greater movement for visibility and LGBT rights as experienced through the eyes of one man."
"My review is on Goodreads, but it was far better than the ABC TV series, by the same name."
"I was pulled in by the first sentence of chapter one."
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Hands on the Freedom Plow: Personal Accounts by Women in SNCC
In Hands on the Freedom Plow, fifty-two women--northern and southern, young and old, urban and rural, black, white, and Latina--share their courageous personal stories of working for the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee (SNCC) on the front lines of the Civil Rights Movement. As the editors write in the introduction, "Though the voices are different, they all tell the same story--of women bursting out of constraints, leaving school, leaving their hometowns, meeting new people, talking into the night, laughing, going to jail, being afraid, teaching in Freedom Schools, working in the field, dancing at the Elks Hall, working the WATS line to relay horror story after horror story, telling the press, telling the story, telling the word. "The stories of the 'beloved community' of unknown women in Hands on the Freedom Plow convey a transcendent message of how history can be changed by committed individuals who stand up to what is wrong and live by that old freedom song 'Ain't gonna let nobody turn me roun.'". " Hands on the Freedom Plow underscores the neglected role women played in the civil rights crusade. Women answered the call, assumed weighty responsibilities, experienced persecution and worked together in the cause of freedom and social justice. "Completely upend[s] both traditional and radical histories of the modern civil rights movement by placing women at the center of their narrative and interpretive process. "Powerful, inspiring, and tremendously moving, the oral histories collected here highlight the essential role women played as organizers and activists with the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee (SNCC) in the South of the early 1960s. The book opens a window onto the organizing tradition of the Southern civil rights movement."
Reviews
"Women have been fighting right alongside of men this whole time.. it's great to get these interviews and read in their own words what was being done, how their parents felt, how their spouses felt.. many of the women were discouraged by their parents, teachers, and others to fight for civil rights in the 1960's .. often paying a heavy price.. loss of scholarships and support for college."
"This is a wonderful and fascinating book that illuminates the soul of the Freedom Movement of the 1960s. No book in recent memory better illustrates the essential truth of that observation than Hands on the Freedom Plow."
"A terrific collection of writing by the women who started SNCC (the Student Non-Violent Coordinating Committee), in the 60s."
"This book should spark great discussions about civil rights, human rights, women's rights, and the rule of law in almost any book discussion group."
"I am glad to know Betty Garman Robinson(objected parents' racism and become a lifelong organizer for social justice) and was thrilled to have witnessed the editors in a book signing gathering on November 30, 2010 as Judy Richardson joined us ( Charm City Labor Chorus, Baltimore, MD) in procession of We Are Soldiers."
"This main stream media and history books have ignored the role of women in the movement for racial justice."
"I am using this textbook as a supplemental resource for a class emphasizing race, class, and gender issues."
"This is a history of the civil rights movement written by women who were organizers in the deep south."
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A Guide to Gender (2nd Edition): The Social Justice Advocate's Handbook
When it comes to understanding gender, it's best to begin with deep breath, then with section one of this book by social justice advocate Sam Killermann, who uses clear language, helpful examples, and a bit of humor to help the medicine go down. Basic Training (which sets the foundation of knowledge for the book, defining concepts of social justice, oppression, privilege, and more); Breaking through the Binary (beginning with a discussion of gender norms, and working toward a more nuanced understanding of gender identity, gender expression, and sex); Feminism & Gender Equity (how feminism can be a solution to the injustices folks of all genders face); and Social Justice Competence (a series of short, practical lessons that will help readers put the learning from the book to work). Sam is also the person behind It's Pronounced Metrosexual, the comedy show performed at colleges and universities, as well as the online resource, which has educated millions of readers on themes of social justice, gender, and sexuality. In 2014, Sam designed an all-gender restroom sign that he gifted to the commons, which is now being implemented on three continents, is featured in the White House, and is becoming the standard for dozens of communities around the U.S. and world.
Reviews
"In this changing world, it's important to understand differences."
"Wonderful book for our family to learn about acceptance."
"I really enjoyed the way that Sam Killermann tackles a very serious and important subject with good humour and balances thought."
"Its an easy read for such a relevant topic."
"It's true I expected more theoretical stuff on gender."
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Best Gay & Lesbian Sexuality

Girl Sex 101
Girl Sex 101 will teach you... *The bits and pieces that make up female sexual anatomy. *Simple ways to communicate in the heat of the moment. *How to build a Road Map of your partner s pleasure. *Essential moves for cunnilingus, strap-ons, hand sex and more! Topics include: Safer Sex, STIs, Cunnilingus, Strap-on sex, Trans Women, Intersex, Sex and Disability, Gender Identity, Coming Out, Menopause, Pregnancy, Dyke Drama, Relationship Skills, Flirting, Vibrators and Other Toys, Lesbian Identity, Bisexual and Pansexual Identity, and much more! Allison Moon is the author of the bestselling sex-ed book Girl Sex 101 , the sex memoir Bad Dyke , and the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves.
Reviews
"i have been bi for years but never knew the lingo."
"Lots of useful info, couched in a great presentation."
"Seriously I think every young queer girl needs this book."
"The use of story telling amidst very educational chapters go a long way into taking a lot of information and making it feel like everything is coming very easily and naturally to you."
"This book was so well written."
"Good resource for any one who wants to please girls!"
"If you're even a little bit curious, you need this book."
"But this is a really, really great sex-positive body-positive book, and I would recommend it for every lesbian and hell, every straight woman."
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Best Gay & Lesbian Philosophy

The Argonauts
Writing in the spirit of public intellectuals such as Susan Sontag and Roland Barthes, Nelson binds her personal experience to a rigorous exploration of what iconic theorists have said about sexuality, gender, and the vexed institutions of marriage and child-rearing. “It’s Nelson’s articulation of her many selves―the poet who writes prose; the memoirist who considers the truth specious; the essayist whose books amount to a kind of fairy tale, in which the protagonist goes from darkness to light, and then falls in love with a singular knight―that makes her readers feel hopeful.” ―Hilton Als, The New Yorker “Maggie Nelson’s The Argonauts exists in its own universe. My first reaction to Nelson’s book was awestruck silence, such as one might experience when confronted with some dazzling supernatural phenomenon. Thinking and feeling are, for Nelson, mutually necessary processes; the result is an exceptional portrait both of a romantic partnership and of the collaboration between Nelson's mind and heart.” ― The New Yorker. “Maggie Nelson slays entrenched notions of gender, marriage, and sexuality with lyricism, intellectual brass, and soul-ringing honesty in The Argonauts. “Reading Maggie Nelson is like watching a high-wire act. “So much writing about motherhood makes the world seem smaller after the child arrives, more circumscribed, as if in tacit fealty to the larger cultural assumptions about moms and domesticity; Nelson's book does the opposite” ― The New York Times Book Review “Maggie Nelson is one of the most electrifying writers at work in America today, among the sharpest and most supple thinkers of her generation.” ―Olivia Laing, The Guardian. “In The Argonauts , Maggie Nelson turns ‘making the personal public' into a romantic, intellectual wet dream. A gorgeous book, inventive, fearless, and full of heart.” ― Kim Gordon “[Nelson's] is a radicalism that looks like the future of common sense. It's a book about using the writings of smart, even difficult writers to help us find clarity and precision in our intimate lives, and it's a book about the no less intimate pleasures of the life of the mind. “Nelson's vibrant, probing and, most of all, outstanding book is also a philosophical look at motherhood, transitioning, partnership, parenting, and family-an examination of the restrictive way we've approached these terms in the past and the ongoing struggle to arrive at more inclusive and expansive definitions for them.” ―NPR “Brilliant like nothing else you've ever read, Maggie Nelson's The Argonauts is as hard to pin down as it is stunning. “Reading Nelson is like sweeping the leaves out of your mental driveway: by the end of one of her books, you have a better understanding of how the world works...The result is one of the most intelligent, generous, and moving books of the year.” ― Publishers Weekly, "Best Summer Books 2015" “ The Argonauts finds Nelson at her most vulnerable, arguing for a radical rethinking of the terms in which we express love.” ― The Paris Review, "Staff Picks". “Maggie Nelson cuts through our culture's prefabricated structures of thought and feeling with an intelligence whose ferocity is ultimately in the service of love. “Reading Maggie Nelson's The Argonauts helped me to feel some things I've long thought about but hardly been able to express regarding the socialization of the maternal function, which is the dispersed, dispersive essence of the futurity we present to one another until one is not another anymore. “In the 17th century a book like Maggie Nelson's The Argonauts might have been called an anatomy, by which I mean it's a learned, quirky, open-hearted, often beautiful naming-of-parts.
Reviews
"I've read lots of queer literature, queer philosophy, and queer theory in the past decade, but this book made me feel more introspective, thoughtful, and curious about gender, femininity, motherhood, and sex than ever before."
"The book is written as a log of a slice of her life and though the details are the vehicle, the fragmentary thoughts - time, location, train-of-thought, &c. - are the real message and they include the reader in a way that feels very intimate while also being pensive enough to remind that reader that it is a labor rather than an extended share-session. Impressive work - I hope many other men are taking it up."
"LOVE THIS BOOK."
"Nelson's reflections on many varied quotations, often from poets, but also from a wide variety of other writers, offers very interesting responses."
"i had heard a lot of recommendations for this book, but it isnt written in a style i necessarily enjoy, but i think its an important story to be told."
"I enjoyed this book!"
"Amazing novel -- the audiobook too I strongly recommend, as it's given by Maggie Nelson herself."
"Speechless at the audacity, skill, depth, pathos and humor."
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Best Gay & Lesbian Coming Out

The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man's World
The revised and expanded edition covers issues related to gay marriage, a broader range of examples that extend beyond middle-class gay men in America, and expansion of the original discussion on living authentically as a gay man. ALAN DOWNS, Ph.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice in Beverly Hills, California, and the former CEO of Michael’s House, a drug and alcohol treatment center in Palm Springs.
Reviews
"Life examples from the less-than-fabulous, i.e. rural/suburban gay men, unsuccessful or non-materialistic gay men, poor and middle-class gay men, ordinary-looking gay men, gay homebodies, senior gay men, disabled gay men, gay men of color, and many others are almost nowhere to be found, likely because these people appear largely absent from the author's social and professional circles (which he talks about a great deal, almost to the point of bragging at times)."
"The author's goal: for the gay reader. to become his authentic self and that means dealing truthfully not. only with his pain but the ways he acts out to avoid feeling that emotion. and many others."
"It will enhance your life in communication, relationships, honesty, passion, love, romance, and happiness if you consistently practice it's lessons."
"The book can be read for its many insights into what makes gay men "tick" or as gay marriage manuel dealing with emotional growth and development as gay men and as coupled gay men."
"I'm about half way through and already it's the best self-help book I've read. The books not over."
"More gay men need to read this book."
"An excellent and vital book for all gay men."
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Best Gay & Lesbian Civil Rights History

When We Rise: My Life in the Movement
Jones found community--in the hotel rooms and ramshackle apartments shared by other young adventurers, in the city's bathhouses and gay bars like The Stud, and in the burgeoning gay district, the Castro, where a New York transplant named Harvey Milk set up a camera shop, began shouting through his bullhorn, and soon became the nation's most outspoken gay elected official. He chronicles the heartbreak of losing countless friends to AIDS, which very nearly killed him, too; his co-founding of the San Francisco AIDS Foundation during the terrifying early years of the epidemic; his conception of the AIDS Memorial Quilt, the largest community art project in history; the bewitching story of 1970s San Francisco and the magnetic spell it cast for thousands of young gay people and other misfits; and the harrowing, sexy, and sometimes hilarious stories of Cleve's passionate relationships with friends and lovers during an era defined by both unprecedented freedom and and violence alike. "You could read Cleve Jones's book because you should know about the struggle for gay, lesbian, and transgender rights from one of its key participants-maybe heroes--but really, you should read it for pleasure and joy. When We Rise is about the building of a movement--and the building of Cleve Jones, who came to San Francisco as a teenage adventurer and transformed into an activist whose contributions helped change the course of gay history. "Cleve Jones is a history buff who has himself become part of history. Now, in When We Rise , Cleve takes us along on his personal journey in the fight for equal rights--a journey filled with humor, sadness, love and ultimately profound change. The story Cleve Jones tells-of a bullied boy from the sun-blasted Arizona suburbs, who finds an extended family among the street kids of San Francisco and then within the gay movement that revolutionized the world-is thrilling to read. "Jones takes readers on his thrilling, if perilous, voyage from fey, long-haired teen hitching his way from his home in Arizona to San Francisco, to becoming the mentee of Harvey Milk ... Jones survives San Francisco's viciously homophobic police in the '70s and, later, the AIDS epidemic that took his dearest friends.
Reviews
"At turns sad, funny, gut wrenching and uplifting, When We Rise chronicles a microcosm in the greater movement for visibility and LGBT rights as experienced through the eyes of one man."
"I lived in San Francisco for this tumultuous period and Cleve Jones was at that time recognized as a Gay Icon who worked with Harvey Milk and George Moscone."
"Hopefully my dream of moving to the west coast will become a reality soon and I will have more chances to speak and learn from this great contemporary."
"Amazing, TRUE (I was there) and it was a journey down memory lane..Thank you, Cleve Jones!"
"You may not have set out to write an LGBT history, but you provided this youngish gay man with a remarkable education, and a renewed sense of gratitude for all of the hard work my forebears put into making the world a better place for everyone."
"The book tells the story of what it was like to be a young gay man in the late 60s who moved to San Francisco and witnessed the struggle for our rights and the AIDS holocaust up close and personal."
"This would be an good personal history of the early days of the gay rights movement and the AIDS epidemic if Jones edited out most of the earth-moving sex that he had with every "gorgeous man" and " cute boy" that came within range of his gaydar."
"This was definitely a page turner for me, I couldn't put it down."
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Best Gay & Lesbian Demographic Studies

Suck Less: Where There's a Willam, There's a Way
I've got clap backs and life hacks and tips on classing up a simple grab-and-run lifting spree to the much more dignified act of larceny. Willam is a model, actress, mattress.
Reviews
"I wrote this and it's good but my Dad says it's riddled with typos worse than a ticks on a deer's butt."
"This was an amazing read."
"I love everything about this book you can actually learn a lot about things you always wanted to know but were afraid to ask."
"Every page is packed full with the hilarious humor every Willam fan knows and loves."
"The book takes you through all aspects of William's life as a drag queen and YT."
"Before this book I was really underestimating myself, but now I learned how to Suck Less & charge more!"
"This is a really fun coffee table book."
"I love Willam so of course I couldn't pass up buying her book."
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Best Bisexuality

Out of a Far Country: A Gay Son's Journey to God. A Broken Mother's Search for Hope.
“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him.” - Luke 15:20. Includes a discussion guide for personal reflection and group use. Praise for Out of a Far Country “Christopher Yuan and Angela Yuan have told the story of their miraculous journey from broken lives, relationships, and dreams to a place of hope and healing. Christopher Yuan, trapped in a life of drugs and sexual addiction, heard that call and rose to follow Jesus. George Verwer, founder and former international director of Operation Mobilisation “ Out of a Far Country is a true-life parable of saving grace for a prodigal mother and a wayward son who needed God’s forgiveness. Philip G. Ryken, president of Wheaton College in Illinois “At one point, Angela and Christopher were living worlds apart. This is a story of God’s redemption, love, and mercy in the midst of overwhelming sin and a heart that was far from God. “The story of Angela Yuan and Christopher Yuan, Out of a Far Country , will minister rich grace and hope to mothers who are praying for the return of a prodigal, to the prodigals they love, and to anyone battling a sinful addiction that seems impossible to overcome.
Reviews
"I love the mother and son writing from their individual perspectives and journey."
"An enlightening book sharing the struggles of the devastating sin of homosexuality and the transformation in the mother's heart, leading her to loving her son and commitment to prayer and trusting the Lord to work in her son's life."
"I have not read it yet."
"It is very well written and shares a true story of God's Amazing Grace."
"Loving people is what God does and He gives us opportunities everyday to show His love through us."
"A sad book about a young man coming to grips with his homosexuality and the destructive path it led him to."
"This book was so helpful - and so much so that had to order this one for a dear friend who was struggling with a son."
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Best Transgender

Trans Bodies, Trans Selves: A Resource for the Transgender Community
Trans Bodies, Trans Selves is a revolutionary resource-a comprehensive, reader-friendly guide for transgender people, with each chapter written by transgender or genderqueer authors. It is a welcoming place for transgender and gender-questioning people, their partners and families, students, professors, guidance counselors, and others to look for up-to-date information on transgender life. "As transgender people strive to gain more acceptance and legal protections, they will soon have a hefty new resource to assist them - a 672-page book, written by scores of transgender contributors, that encompasses social history, gender politics and wide-ranging advice on health, law, relationships and many other matters. Encyclopedic in scope, conversational in tone, and candid about complex sexual issues, the Oxford University Press book being released in mid-May is titled Trans Bodies, Trans Selves - a deliberate echo of a pioneering feminist health-resource book, Our Bodies, Ourselves that appeared more than 40 years ago" -- Associated Press "I have been waiting for some time to see a book come out that is written for the purposes of providing timely information to transgender individuals to support them through their identity process. I have yet to have seen a book that incorporates information for individuals who identify on the gender spectrum-most books focus on one specific identity, whereas Trans Bodies, Trans Selves allows for the breadth of applying to many different individuals. -Stephanie L. Budge, PhD, Assistant Professor, Counseling Psychology, University of Louisville. " Trans Bodies, Trans Selves is the answer to the wishes of many trans individuals and their therapists and counselors for a comprehensive resource of critical information that is both accurate and reliable, on the one hand, and written in a respectful way that is addressed to trans and questioning readers rather than at them or about them. Thanks to Trans Bodies, Trans Selves and all the transgender folks who have been writing and teaching over the past many years, we, a group of cisgender women, now know that we can no longer say 'a woman's body' and mean only one thing." -Jamison Green, President of the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH), co-director of the Transgender Law & Policy Institute, and author of Becoming a Visible Man " Trans Bodies, Trans Selves comes at a moment in our history when transgender people are in the spotlight, but we are not yet the authority on our own lives. -Riki Wilchins, founder of GenderPAC and The Transexual Menace, and author of Queer Theory, Gender Theory: An Instant Primer " Trans Bodies Trans Selves is a remarkably timely and much needed book that brings together collaborators across the spectrum of transgender health, culture, and history. Happily, trans people now have a wealth of information in the form of Trans Bodies, Trans Selves ." -Dallas Denny, Founding Director of the American Educational Gender Information Service (AEGIS), past editor of Chrysalis Quarterly and Transgender Tapestry, and former director of the Fantasia Fair. "There has never been a book just like Trans Bodies, Trans Selves . -Rebecca Allison, MD, past President of GLMA: Health Professionals Advancing LGBT Equality. " TBTS is brimming with straightforward information about living a life as a gender-nonconforming person in the United States...illuminating even for people who are already well-informed... " -- The New Republic "[T]his book clearly comes at the perfect time...Bridging the gap between being understandable to the newest of readers and being helpful to those more versed in transgender issues, the vastness of topics covered includes everything from sex work to sexual safety, from romantic relationships to personal feelings about one's changing body. --socialworker.com. "Trans Bodies, Trans Selves offers practical suggestions on navigating life as a transgender person.
Reviews
"Now, both trans and non trans people have an excellent resource for information on transition, its implications and how best to achieve the desired goal of "being at one" with yourself. Over all its a MOUNTAIN of information."
"The book explores many facets of beings trans, including race, ethnicity, and culture and how these effect trans people as well as trans people in different religious traditions."
"AMAZING BOOK... More complete than anything I've seen before. Lots of great writings from well-known providers and trans* activists."
"Since the time it was written, the military has lifted its ban on trans soldiers (June 2016) and started rolling out training for commanders (July-October)."
"I predict this book will become a text book in colleges across the country for LGBT studies."
"While this is an invaluable resource for those who are transgender or gender non-conforming, it is also wonderful for trans allies to get complete view of what it means to be transgender, and to learn how to offer support and advocate."
"This book is highly informative and discusses many aspects of being trans and or gender diverse."
"I have been waiting for a book like this for years."
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