Best Child Development

In this pioneering, practical book, Daniel J. Siegel, neuropsychiatrist and author of the bestselling Mindsight , and parenting expert Tina Payne Bryson offer a revolutionary approach to child rearing with twelve key strategies that foster healthy brain development, leading to calmer, happier children. Praise for The Whole-Brain Child "This erudite, tender and funny book is filled with fresh ideas based on the latest neuroscience research. Most of all, The Whole-Brain Child helps parents teach kids about how their brain actually works, giving even very young children the self-understanding that can lead them to make good choices, and, ultimately, to lead meaningful and joyful lives.”. – Christine Carter, Ph.D., author of Raising Happiness “In their dynamic and readable new book, Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson sweep aside the old models of 'good' and 'bad' parenting to offer a scientific focus: the impact of parenting on brain development.
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Find Best Price at Amazon"Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson's "The Whole Brain Child" fails to deliver on the titular promise of "revolutionary" parenting strategies to "truly help your kids be happier, healthier, and more fully themselves"; it does, however, provide innovative and effective explanations, packaging, and delivery of many tried-and-true parenting techniques that turn out to be neuroscientifically based. The first four chapters are the love child of the Johns - Medina's "Brain Rules for Baby" and Gottman's "Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child." The following seven strategies result: (1) "Connect and Redirect: [Helping Kids Learn to Surf] Emotional Waves"; (2) "Name It to Tame It: Telling Stories to Calm Big Emotions"; (3) "Engage, Don't Enrage: Appealing to the Upstairs Brain"; (4) "Use It or Lose It: Exercising the Upstairs Brain"; (5) "Move It or Lose It: Moving the Body to Avoid Losing the Mind"; (6) "Use the Remote of the Mind: Replaying Memories"; and (7) "Remember to Remember: Making Recollection a Part of Your Family's Daily Life." The fifth and sixth chapters, however, throw a little of Susan Stiffelman's "Parenting Without Power Struggles" into the mix, offering child therapy techniques and explaining why they work through the prism of brain science. "By helping our kids connect left [brain] and right [brain]" - as well as their "upstairs" and "downstairs" brains and implicit and explicit memories - "we give them a better chance of [finding] . Finally, I want to share two interesting tidbits from "The Whole Brain Child" approach that contradict standard parenting advice but perfectly align with my parenting instincts: "An upstairs tantrum occurs when a child essentially decides to throw a fit. On the "eh" side of the scale, "The Whole Brain Child" is more useful for older children than younger ones, is often redundant and long-winded (darned brain scientists trying to make information stick), and isn't as comprehensive as "Parenting with Love & Logic." Though Spiegel and Bryson don't offer much that's new in the realm of what parents ought to do, "The Whole Brain Child" adds value to the genre in providing the why and organizing the what into an easily understood, memorable, and, yes, at one point even "revolutionary," how."
"Very well written."
"He loved doing it - he'd ask to read the brain book - and it became the perfect way to discuss the concepts in the book."
"Excellent resource whether you are a parent, teacher, or professional!"
"Very interesting and refreshing look on child care without being too "coddling" in the author's approach."
"Logical, common sense tied to scientific research: easy to understand and use with children."
"This was a great book."
"Helped to understand how my child's brain is developing."

2 No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind
an eye-opener worth reading.”— Parents Highlighting the fascinating link between a child’s neurological development and the way a parent reacts to misbehavior, No-Drama Discipline provides an effective, compassionate road map for dealing with tantrums, tensions, and tears—without causing a scene. Inside this sanity-saving guide you’ll discover. • strategies that help parents identify their own discipline philosophy—and master the best methods to communicate the lessons they are trying to impart. • facts on child brain development—and what kind of discipline is most appropriate and constructive at all ages and stages. • the way to calmly and lovingly connect with a child—no matter how extreme the behavior—while still setting clear and consistent limits. • tips for navigating your child through a tantrum to achieve insight, empathy, and repair. • twenty discipline mistakes even the best parents make—and how to stay focused on the principles of whole-brain parenting and discipline techniques. Complete with candid stories and playful illustrations that bring the authors’ suggestions to life, No-Drama Discipline shows you how to work with your child’s developing mind, peacefully resolve conflicts, and inspire happiness and strengthen resilience in everyone in the family. Siegel and [Tina Payne] Bryson help parents teach and communicate more effectively.” — Publishers Weekly “A lot of fascinating insights . The ideas presented in this latest book can actually be applied to all of our relationships, as it will help us in many circumstances to be able to calm down, have empathy for another person, and then communicate in a constructive way about our concerns and proposed solutions. By making the latest breakthroughs in brain science accessible to any parent, they show why empathy and connection are the royal road to cooperation, discipline, and family harmony.” —Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D., author of The Opposite of Worry “Using simple and clear explanations, practical advice, and cartoons that make the how-to guidance come alive, this book is a rich resource for families trying to navigate meltdowns and misunderstandings. No-Drama Discipline offers a research-based, commonsense approach that any grown-up will be happy to use, and any kid will benefit from.” —Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence “Frustrated parents often ask me why the disciplinary techniques they are using with their children aren’t working, or are even making things worse. Simply put, Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson’s insights and techniques will make you a better parent. She is a pediatric and adolescent psychotherapist, the director of parenting for the Mindsight Institute, and the child development specialist at Saint Mark’s School in Altadena, California.
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Find Best Price at Amazon"My grandchildren were acting out in ways that were unsafe (ages 3 and 5 at the time) running near traffic, throwing tantrums. Without reading the entire book, I learned enough to completely turn the situation around. Recent example: I pick up my granddaughter from school and she is in her weird mood again, runs down the street and crosses it without me!"
"I can't speak to how well this will work with older children with better verbal skills (but since the crux of it is paying attention and connecting, it seems like good advice even for dealing with adults), but with a toddler with a pretty good ability to understand but quite a limited vocabulary and ability to express herself verbally, this method has worked wonders. While, like all self-help books, the same basic ideas are repeated many different ways, and you can start to feel like "okay, okay, I *get* it," I do feel like the repetition and examples did help me internalize the methods, and--just as importantly--helped give me a good enough sense of it to explain the concepts well to my partner (I'm the reader/filterer of the parenting books in our family). The other upshot is that hammering the ideas into your brain really does help stop you when you start to react in your default, autopilot way, so you as a parent can stop your own bad behavior and model how a smart, thoughtful person should act, even if wise choices don't always come naturally ;)."
"This is an excellent book!"
"Loving this book."
"It helps me understand my kids better and gives practical, everyday advice for parents."
"On chapter 2 and Already helping with maintaining boundaries and my patience in responding to my daughter."
"A "must-read" for all of my clients who are parents!"
"It is a little repetitive to read, but the principals are great."

This parenting book shows you how to raise self-confident, motivated children who are ready for the real world. Now, parents can embrace mistakes as wonderful learning opportunities to raise respectful, responsible, and caring children." --Gloria Sherman, M.A., LPC, Counselor Zemmer Jr. High, Lapeer, Michigan Parenting with Love & Logic is an essential component for our students, parents, and teachers. --Carol R. Cole, Ph.D., LMFT Parenting with Love and Logic is a terrific book for parents that provide important concepts and practical solutions to help children become emotionally, socially, and morally healthy." --Terry M. Levy, PhD, co-director Evergreen Psychotherapy Center, Coauthor Attachment, Trauma and Healing This book gives parents the tools to build a lifelong relationship based on respect, empathy, appreciation, and love. --Stephanie Bryan, Clinical Social Worker and Parent Coach, www.REALparenting.net This hilariously entertaining guidebook to working with children contains practical and easy-to-apply principles for both the home and the classroom." --Terry M. Levy, Ph.D, codirector Evergreen Psychotherapy Center, Coauthor Attachment, Trauma and Healing "This book gives parents the tools to build a lifelong relationship based on respect, empathy, appreciation, and love.
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Find Best Price at Amazon"I can say, though, that I was a very strong willed child myself, and if my parents had used these methods, our house would have been much more peaceful, relationships improved, and I probably wouldn't have made some of the poor choices as an older teen that I did. The pet example seems to have many people up-in-arms, yet in this example, the parent did NOT permanently give away the pet as people state, they temporarily gave the dog to a family friend, telling the child they had 3 days to decide if the pet could come back home. Also, they did not starve the pet as everyone seems to think, they did let the child know they were abusing the pet by not feeding it. It certainly doesn't say the parent didn't or shouldn't feed the pet (without telling the child)."
"I should prop this book open and plaster quotes from it all over my house, b/c when I use the tips they suggest dealing with the challenges IS MUCH EASIER!!"
"This is a must have for parents."
"A must read for all parents."
"A book ALL parents should read and those that work with children."
"I raised my children with these principles."
"Lots of great techniques and ideas for real-life scenarios."
Best Children's Studies

Based on a true story, Call Me Tuesday recounts, with raw emotion, a young girl's physical and mental torment at the mercy of the monster in her mother's clothes--a monster she doesn't know how to stop loving. - Jayne L. Williams MS LPC, Mental Health Therapist & former Assistant Professor, Saint-Mary-of-the Woods College "A compelling portrayal of grief gone horribly wrong." - Alexandra Levit, a former nationally syndicated columnist for the Wall Street Journal, current writer for the New York Times, and bestselling author "This story was like a blueprint and a guidance for all children who have suffered from their loved ones." - David Lloyd, The Virtual Muser eBook Review "Despite the disturbing subject matter, the writing is well-crafted but never emotionally manipulative or maudlin, which made this a surprisingly enjoyable read." Call Me Tuesday is my small attempt to make as many people as possible aware that extreme maltreatment of a child at the hands of a parent does actually happen, an ugly truth I feel everyone needs to know.
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Find Best Price at Amazon"This book is very well written without going into extreme graphics about the abuse that was suffered."
"I loved this story and I wished I could hug this person! Now I'm on to the sequel Call Me Cockroach."
"I can't imagine a child having gone through so much torture."
"As a fellow survivor of physical and mental abuse I felt a rage toward her parents like I haven't felt in a long time."
"It is time for people in positions of power to stand up and help these children."
"I enjoyed it."
"What an amazing book."
"Any adult including the social worker should have seen by the way she was dressed and her physical condition that things were not good at home."
Best Child Discipline

Positive Discipline A-Z: 1001 Solutions to Everyday Parenting Problems (Positive Discipline Library)
This newly revised and expanded third edition contains up-to-the-minute information on sleeping through the night, back talk, and lack of motivation as well as tips on diet, exercise, and obesity prevention, and new approaches to parenting in the age of computers and cell phones. As the mother of. an almost-four-year-old and a one-year-old, I am working on incorporating PD ideas into my parenting, and we look forward to starting family meetings soon!”. —Janet Frick, associate professor, Department of Psychology, University of Georgia. “The Positive Discipline series has empowered me and my husband to be the kind of parents we want to be day-in and day-out in the face of any and all circumstances. “Thank you so much for all of the wonderful parenting tools—we have a much happier family since discovering your books!”. —Krista Schelhaas.
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Find Best Price at Amazon"The format of this book is conducive to implementing the recommendations immediately and easily."
"Helpful resource for parenting."
"I use it as recipe guide for everyday issues parents deal with."
"Learned need to be respectful to kids."
"This is the best every to help parents with their children."
"This book is next to my bible on the coffee table!"
"This is an amazing book.After reading only the first chapter and a few of the A-Z topics that was related to a few struggles I had with my 7 and half year old son, I definitely see the improvements."
"This is an easy read that I purchased for myself after having read through it at the clinic."
Best Child Psychology

For over 20 years, On Becoming Babywise has been the de facto newborn parenting manual for naturally synchronizing your baby’s feeding time, waketime and nighttime sleep cycles, so the whole family can sleep through the night. Practical discussions then focus on broad and niche topics including feeding philosophies, baby sleep problems, baby scheduling challenges, nap routines, sleep training multiples, baby sleeping props, Colic and Reflux and many other dimensions which impact breast feeding schedules, bottle feeding tips and baby sleep training. 1) Taking care of baby and mom. 2) A timeline of what to expect and when. 3) Baby Sleep Training Problems and Solutions. 4) Monitoring Your Baby’s Growth. 5) Healthy Baby Growth Charts. My residents report a positive difference in the confidence of new mothers who work with this plan compared to those who do not. They consistently produce babies who are healthy, content, and who sleep through the night at an early age. "Since being introduced to the principles of Babywise, I have been convinced of its effectiveness in establishing sleep patterns and in decreasing the frequency of problems associated with infant feeding." This is the current and completely revised & updated version of On Becoming Babywise (the 5th edition, February 2012). It has a new chapter, several important revisions, the latest in medical updates, and is 19% longer than the former version. In becoming one of America's leading infant management guides, On Becoming Babywise has continued to improve its methods and practices throughout its 30 years and this latest version is the result of all the best over the last three decades. The Babywise method continues to gain global recognition for its common-sense approach to parenting a newborn. and co-author Gary Ezzo which helps parents successfully and naturally synchronize their baby's feeding time, waketime and nighttime cycles. Rather, our larger objective is to help prepare minds for the incredible task of raising a child. Your baby will not care if his head rests on designer sheets or beside Disney characters, nor is your success tied to his wardrobe or bedroom accessories, but rather to the beliefs and convictions that will eventually shape your parenting experience. It is our opinion that the achievements of healthy growth, contented babies, good naps, and playful wake times, as well as the gift of nighttime sleep, are too valuable to be left to chance. We realize there are a number of parenting theories being marketed today, most of which come gift-wrapped with unrealistic promises and unnecessary burdens. Spend time with relatives and friends who follow the Attachment Parenting style of infant care. The Appendices section in On Becoming Babywise contains charts, worksheets, and additional information relating to infant care. And while 70% of our mothers are still breast-feeding after six months, the national average encourage to follow demand feeding without any guidelines is only 20%. The authors demonstrate how order and stability are mutual allies of every newborn's metabolism and how parents can take advantage of these biological propensities. In particular, we note how an infant's body responds to the influences of parental routine or the lack thereof. Examine carefully the alternative theories and approaches, and specifically observe the end results. The best evaluation of any parenting philosophy, including Babywise, is not found in the reasoning or the logic of the hypothesis. " As family physicians and a husband-wife team, we are often asked questions related to parenting and the general care of children.
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Find Best Price at Amazon"On Becoming Babywise taught me to tap into my God-given parental instincts while providing me medically-sound advice to equip me in teaching my infant to sleep through the night."
"My baby was sleeping 8 hours at night at 8 weeks old thanks to this book."
"I remember a few friends and family members being concerned that it was a bad idea to wake up a sleeping baby to feed her or to put her down for a nap before she started crying from fatigue. Furthermore, the same people who worried back then, now ask me to help their own friends and family train their children to sleep."
"The book was good and has good ideas."
"This book came highly recommended by friends."
"Still reading, havent really seen anything new to help me just yet."
"Absolutely essential for parents of multiples."
Best Educational Counseling

The second section on back pocket tips provides several tools and techniques, such as smiling, the ABCs of body language, the 3-foot rule, the 4 magic words to initiate a conversation and the key to maintaining it, active listening, and the secret sauce, that are guaranteed to get you out of your cramped shell and into the exciting world of social Interaction. This book is so well written that it is easy to read and keeps your interest. ". Contact Erik directly at Erik@overcomingshyness.co.
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Find Best Price at Amazon"His lessons and way of expressing himself help the reader truly come to grasp with how to overcome the doubts, fears and resistance that comes along with being introverted or shy. And for anyone who does have family members or friends that may be a little shy, this is an AMAZING gift for them!"
"Erik's positive approach to breaking out of my shell left me feeling hopeful and energized!"
"I found Eric's personal story and the steps that he took to overcome his shyness compelling and encouraging!"
"Overcoming Shyness was a quick read."
"I enjoyed this book, it allowed me to see social anxiety through another set of eyes, by someone who truly experienced and overcame the difficulties of social anxiety."
"This is a great read if you have always wanted to be like others you have seen in your life."
"Myers brings together for us the importance of reading and researching self-help concepts AND their power when our own inner motivation comes to the place of desiring real change."
"His approach to storytelling is focused on delivering value and sharing his personal experiences in a way that can help every reader."