Best Couples & Family Therapy
Mira Kirshenbaum ( I Love You, But I Don't Trust You ), an international bestselling author and world-renowned therapist, draws on years of counseling experience to lead readers through relationship ambivalence. Those who give certain answers to the diagnostic questions will be faced not only with a realization of how deep the problems may be but also with Kirshenbaum's repeated admonitions that "most people who answered the question the way you did were happy they left and unhappy they stayed." But Kirshenbaum does caution that "nothing in the book overrules what a good therapist...might tell you," and she will help readers sort out ambivalent feelings about relationships.
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Find Best Price at Amazon"When I got this book it was my plan to read through it and reaffirm my reasons to stay. To be able to move forward, fully committed and free of fear. Upon reading the beginning of the book, I saw all of the words about staying. Deliberately, trying to make the best of every single memory while remaining truly honest with myself in the process. I let time pass and read it again, trying to make sure it was the mood of the moment."
"If you can't decide to leave or stay you 're in relationship ambivalence."
"You know - you think how you feel is the way it should be, but then when you hear it from someone else, so highly qualified, it makes you realize you were correct in thinking the way you did. I highly recommend it if you're on the fence."
"Excellent approach to gaining individual insight into marital issues."
"A deeply thoughtful book."
"Asking the right kind of questions makes all the difference any time you want to make a sound decision."
"This book helped me resolve my own marital ambivalence, and sadly, I've just bought a copy for my little sis ;-\. I highly recommend it for people who can't figure out if they're dealing with normal marital crap or if it's time to move on."
A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home. Some of the proposals Perel recommends for rekindling eroticism involve cultivating separateness (e.g., autonomy) in a relationship rather than closeness (entrapment); exploring dynamics of power and control (i.e., submission, spanking); and learning to surrender to a "sexual ruthlessness" that liberates us from shame and guilt.
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Find Best Price at Amazon"I started listening to Esther's podcast which I loved and wanted to read her book as well."
"An honest and relevant exploration of human sexuality in relationship to monogamous relationships."
"Additionally, the case studies didn't always seem to dovetail with the author's theories."
"Esther’s insights are spot on and very helpful in understanding the dynamics of a relationship."
"I haven't read a better reason to be hopeful that long term relationships can maintain, even increase, passion and desire than this."
"We are by nature somehow pourly equipped to handle relationship."
"haven't finished the book yet (i'm a full time working mom/wife)."
"Parts of this book hit so close to home that I have to take a break from it."
The emotional parent instills feelings of instability and anxiety The driven parent stays busy trying to perfect everything and everyone The passive parent avoids dealing with anything upsetting The rejecting parent is withdrawn, dismissive, and derogatory. "Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD, gives practical insight into a prevalent problem�The book is impeccably clear�This utter lack of confusion makes the book quite soothing, despite the heavy subject."
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Find Best Price at Amazon"What I like about this book, in particular, is that is reveals the systematic nature of emotionally immature thinking, which underlies the behavior of parents, lovers, friends, and public figures. Lastly, this book is very good for people whose parents weren't excessively narcissistic, who weren't controlling or grandiose in an exaggerated fashion."
"I've read countless self help books by various authors over the last three decades but, still, I never got to the heart of what was causing within me a pervasive sense of sadness, loneliness and not belonging. I could give countless examples going way back to my early childhood but suffice to say that Lindsay's book is the story of my live. I was always on the receiving end of my sister's evil doings but my parents blamed me for her s. They would give in to her all the time and at my expense. Mother's jealousy, envy and resentment towards me were not recognized at the time but, on reflection, I now realize how damaging it was. I've lived most of my life with a multitude of conflicting and confusing emotions that neither I or any therapist I've seen or other books I've read has touch the spot quite like, 'Emotionally Immature Parents'. The decades have gone by and I'm now 65... at last I understand the emotional damage done throughout my early childhood and the life long affect it has had on me."
"There are a few negative reviews that accuse the book of being judgmental and fostering dangerous, exaggerated attitudes toward parents. This book gives a name to the subtle disengagement, distance and neglect kids suffer at the hands of parents who probably do a great job of providing food, clothing, shelter and physical safety."
Best Parent & Adult Child Relationships
James McBride, journalist, musician, and son, explores his mother's past, as well as his own upbringing and heritage, in a poignant and powerful debut, The Color Of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother . "Mommy," a fiercely protective woman with "dark eyes full of pep and fire," herded her brood to Manhattan's free cultural events, sent them off on buses to the best (and mainly Jewish) schools, demanded good grades, and commanded respect. The Color of Water touches readers of all colors as a vivid portrait of growing up, a haunting meditation on race and identity, and a lyrical valentine to a mother from her son. Order this book ... and please don't be put off by its pallid subtitle, A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother , which doesn't begin to do justice to the utterly unique and moving story contained within. Jordan, born Rachel Shilsky, a Polish Jew, immigrated to America soon after birth; as an adult she moved to New York City, leaving her family and faith behind in Virginia. Her grim upbringing in an abusive environment is left behind when she moves to Harlem, marries a black man, converts to Christianity, and cofounds a Baptist congregation with her husband.
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Find Best Price at Amazon"highschooler had to read for class."
"A great story of a remarkable girl who overcomes early setbacks to become a fabulous wife and mother who raises 12 children who all became very successful in life."
"Well written and powerful."
"Love, love, love this memoir!"
"I like this book it really shows you how another person's point of view is different from your."
Best Counseling Children
What you need to know about her broken confidence (and how to fix it right away) (For New Dads Only) The truth about fatherhood no one talks about How you can help your daughter gain self-respect starting today How to talk to your daughter so she'll listen every time How to help her persevere when she wants to quit The secret to helping her overcome adversity And much more. This parenting book contains case studies, advice and interviews with real dads to help you encourage your daughter before she becomes a teenager. Imagine having other dads come to you for advice with their kids. Dads - do yourself and your daughters a huge favor - buy this book!" - Megan C. Scott, author, Low Carb Egg Cookbook "For fathers who are raising daughters and are looking for a down-to-earth, practical and inspirational source material, this is the book you want." All fathers should get this book to take home with them from the hospital when their daughter is born." What you need to know about her broken confidence (and how you can fix it right away) How you can help your daughter gain self-respect starting today How to get your daughter to listen to you over and over again (And For New Dads) Discover the truth about fatherhood no one talks about And much, much more.
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Find Best Price at Amazon"I want to be a good Uncle and here is a sample of what I learned as a guy with no kids of his own. "Kill negative thoughts...it's not enough to have her just think rainbows and butterflies all day long.""
"I think this book gives fathers new & old some useful tips on how to be a father to their daughters."
"In a generation where grandparents, or babysitters, or teachers, or coaches are raising people's kids, this is a timely book."
"Yet he turns the tables and reminds dads that they should model good behavior and choices in front of their daughter. "Kill negative thoughts, act positively, be kind, stand straight, encourage your daughter, project a proper appearance, watch what you say and how you say it, and RESPECT yourself and others. Notice how those bikini-clad models affect your daughter's behavior and what you will do to help her deal with her feelings."
"This is an excellent book which I recommend all fathers read."
"This is an excellent book for all fathers."
"Best of all, it's crystal clear how much this man values his daughters and wants them to grow up to be strong, confident women."
"Better content can be found in any parenting magazine."
Best Adolescent Counseling
Taking place in the idyllic town of South Lake Tahoe, CA , Long Blue Line is the coming of age of Elizabeth Jeter. After reading a romance book sensationalizing a young woman's perfect life following the hookup with a wealthy prince charming, Elizabeth set out to create her own fairy tale ending. Her obsession with pregnancy, social issues , independence, and, ultimately drugs is chronicled in brutally honest Prose that will leave you spellbound. " Elizabeth wrote this book in order for teens and the parents of teens to become aware of a harsh reality: many teen girls plan secret pregnancies!" In addition to her roles as freelance writer, blogger, best-selling author and web design specialist, she has helped over one hundred aspiring authors launch and sell ebooks in nearly every genre. Her ultimate passion has always been writing and she candidly recounts her challenging journey in the controversial book, Long Blue Line-which is available on Amazon.com.
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Find Best Price at Amazon"Between Long Blue Line and the last few books I've read, (including The Girl With No Past: A gripping psychological thriller and Spilled Milk: Based On A True Story) I'm back into reading full-throttle."
"The author takes you on an amazing heartfelt journey into her past, her thoughts and dreams."
"Unprepared for the responsibility of being a parent, the pregnancy triggers a downward spiral involving conflict, drug abuse, and other struggles."
"I absolutely loved reading this incredibly surprising and tragic story."
"It seemed just as I was totally engrossed in the substance of the story another mistake would glaringly hit me in the face and ruin the moment."
"Like the author, I also grew up in a small town in California and I could relate to her story in so many ways."
"Very disappointed in the way this girl blames everyone else for her situation."
"Started out sympathetic to her."