Best Preschool & Kindergarten

But in How Children Succeed , Paul Tough argues that the qualities that matter more have to do with character: skills like perseverance, curiosity, optimism, and self-control. How Children Succeed introduces us to a new generation of researchers and educators, who, for the first time, are using the tools of science to peel back the mysteries of character. How Children Succeed is an attempt to answer those questions, which for many of us are big and mysterious and central in our lives: Why do certain children succeed while other children fail? Why is it, exactly, that poor children are less likely to succeed, on average, than middle-class children? That makes a huge difference in how children’s brains develop, and scientists are now able to trace a direct route from those early negative experiences to later problems in school, health, and behavior. And that’s a big part of why so many low-income kids don’t do well in school. Many readers were first exposed to your reporting on character through your article in the New York Times Magazine in September 2011, which was titled "What If the Secret to Success Is Failure?" A. That’s an idea that I think was best expressed by Dominic Randolph, the head of the Riverdale Country School, an exclusive private school in the Bronx where they’re now doing some interesting experiments with teaching character. That’s a skill that parents can certainly help their children develop--but so can teachers and coaches and mentors and neighbors and lots of other people. By not giving them the chance to learn to manage adversity, to cope with failure, we produce kids who have real problems when they grow up. *Starred Review* Debunking the conventional wisdom of the past few decades that disadvantaged children need to develop basic reading and counting skills before entering school, Tough argues that they would be better served by learning such skills as grit, conscientiousness, curiosity, and optimism. Tough (Whatever It Takes, 2008) spent two years interviewing students, teachers, and administrators at failing public schools, alternative programs, charter schools, elite schools, and a variety of after-school programs. He also interviewed psychologists, economists, and neuroscientists and examined the latest research on character education beyond the bromides of the Left and Right to discover what actually works in teaching children skills that will aid them in school and in life, whatever the circumstances of their childhoods. Most compelling are Tough’s portraits of adolescents from backgrounds rife with poverty, violence, drug-addicted parents, sexual abuse, and failing schools, who manage to gain skills that help them overcome their adversities and go on to college. Tough ultimately argues in favor of research indicating that these important skills can be learned and children’s lives saved.
Reviews
Find Best Price at Amazon"Following the footsteps of Jonathan Kozol, Paul Tough employs his significant storytelling abilities to help readers see and feel the plight of children, families and communities trapped in cycles of failure and poverty. How Children Succeed challenges some conventional wisdom on causes of failure (poverty, teacher quality) and contends that nurturing character in children and young adults is the key to success. Adolescent Character Formation. ==============================. Paul Tough highlights the work of school and support programs that intentionally focus on forming the character strength habits that enable children to learn well in schools, form healthy relationships, and avoid the destructive decisions and behavior patterns modeled in their communities. Just as early intervention with parents and young children yields wide ranging benefits for families in poverty, so character interventions in adolescence can and do enable young adults surrounded by cycles of poverty to learn self-control, perseverance and focus that are critical for escaping the gravitational pull of their communities. Tough shows compellingly that parents and children in poverty can and do overcome the powerful environmental forces of their communities - and that this is a beautiful and essential component of breaking cyclical poverty."
"I bought this book because it is a requirement for a Character Education course that I am taking for re-certification."
"He states: "[S]cientists have demonstrated that the most reliable way to produce an adult who is brave and curious and kind and prudent is to ensure that when he is an infant, his hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis functions well. First, as much as possible, you protect him from serious trauma and chronic stress; then, even more important, you provide him with a secure, nurturing relationship with at least one parent and ideally two." Tough also cautions us parents to balance "our urge to provide everything for our child, to protect him from all harm" against "our knowledge that if we really want him to succeed, we need to first let him fail." But those who remember a time when they cared about other people's children will eat up what is essentially Tough's second book-length New Yorker article examining the intersection of education and poverty (the first, "Whatever It Takes," is arguably an even more interesting read). molded, in measurable and predictable ways, by the environment in which children grow up," and even after the most formative years "are very much changeable - entirely malleable, in fact. Tough skillfully splices their stories together and distills complicated concepts into easily digestible explanations (e.g., "mental contrasting ."
"It should be clear that strong character is not a given for people and that we need instruction, correction and, to some degree, material assistance to develop it. Paul Tough lays out what, I suppose, must be presented as an existential appeal with stories about young people who overcome weaknesses in character."

The Reading Lesson is a bestselling program that teaches young children to read in 20 easy lessons. Terri Bittner, bellaonline.com
"This sensible early reading system introduces young children to letter sounds and to simple words, sight words, and basic stories to read. Regional accents and children's relatively weak auditory and articulation skills account for the variations. Encourage your child to make the closest possible sound to the one suggested in the lesson but allow some leeway. So do not insist on absolute accuracy in sounding out the individual letters if it is difficult for your child. Through animation and simple games, these multimedia companions will make learning to read fun. For very young children, we suggest, the Sounds of Letters DVD, another good way to teach phonics. For many young readers (including children who are familiar with the alphabet), the letters in words seem to melt together. How fast should you go The length and the pace of the daily lessons will vary with the child's age and abilities. Remember: you have plenty of time to complete the course and, if necessary, to go back and repeat the course before your child starts reading instruction in school. Contrary to some books that suggest that you can teach infants to read, there is no proof that such a thing is possible. Flashing cards with letters and words at a baby is a fun thing to do and makes us feel like good parents, but it does not work. If your child is having real trouble staying on task and learning the material of the first lessons, he may not be ready for this program. Children need to develop both of these types of reading abilities, so we advise not to skip the sentences just because the child does not want to do them. Our brain receives direct messages from the movement of our finger joints and remembers the shape of each letter.
Reviews
Find Best Price at Amazon"I bought my first copy 4 years ago and used it to teach my daughter to read when she was 5. We finished maybe 2/3 of the book and one day I heard her, from another room in the house, reading a book out loud fluently and perfectly. I was surprised when I heard her because she was reading words and sounds we hadn't yet covered in our lessons. Since it worked so well with my daughter I recently purchased my second copy of this book to teach my 4 year old son to read."
"My five year old learned how to read with this book."
"This book does a great job at teaching children of all ages how to read."
"This is good, easy, basic, simple!"
"I have been using this with my son in Kindergarten (homeschooled) for a few months now."
"My children are homeschooled and we had tried a lot of different curriculum for reading/phonics thst were not clicking."
"I've sent many friends to purchase this book to teach their children to read, and all of them have loved this book!"

PLEASE NOTE: This is NOT a handbook for 'how to homeschool,' but rather a book that will help you with all of the responsibilities you juggle as you homeschool and how to cut through the chaos and overwhelm. “...This is THE Go-To book for homeschooling mamas who really do want to do it all without being burdened by overwhelm and just need someone to show them how to make it work…” Lisa Tucker, blogger at gracefulabandon.com and homeschooling mom of eight kids. Amber is a born again believer who lives out her faith by being a stay at home mom and wife.
Reviews
Find Best Price at Amazon"I recognized a lot of what Amber Fox is talking about."
"Just like Sarah Mackenzie so graciously encouraged us in her must-read Teaching From A Place of Rest and Sally Clarkson spoke to our hearts in The Mission of Motherhood and also Educating The Wholehearted Child, so Amber speaks to us about what truly matters. The author shares encouragement and practical, hands-on wisdom that will help homeschooling moms whether they are just starting out, or have been on the journey for a decade or more. But Amber Fox spoke to me as a wife, as a daughter of God, as a mom, as a homemaker, AND as a homeschooling parent."
"There's only 1 chapter that is specifically about homeschooling, the others cover your relationship with God, marriage, friends, housekeeping, church, finances, etc."
"In it, you will find Biblically sound advice for all the most important areas of your life, from your relationship with God, husband, and children, to keeping a tidy and orderly home, to cultivating godly friendships, to managing your finances wisely. Throughout the book, I discovered wonderful gems of wisdom and insight that will be a huge help to me in my homeschooling efforts going forward."
"That's Amber."
"Amber Fox offers helps on juggling marriage, kids, friends, and managing the home from a Christian perspective."
Best Parenting Toddlers

In just over a year, the helpless infant emerges as a little moving, talking, walking, exploratory person marked by keen senses, clear memory, quick perceptions and unlimited energy. As book 4 of 9, Toddlerwise is a key member of the bestselling "On Becoming" parenting series by trusted authors Gary Ezzo and Robert Bucknam, whose various titles have supported translations into 14 languages, 18 years of continuous print runs, millions of books in print, and grateful parents all over the globe. A toddler's day covers a gamut of challenges, including small tantrums in the pizza shop because there is a bubble on the cheese to tantrums at nap time because they are just too tired to rationalize the benefits of sleep. With mom and dad as their principal teachers, join us in the adventure of discovering positive methods to assure your toddler receives the love, patience, and care they need in these precious times of developing who they are.
Reviews
Find Best Price at Amazon"Becoming toddler wise is the best book for new parents or parents looking to get child on schedule based feeding and naps."
"This book not only gives tips on what to do, it also gives tutorials on why."
"OK book."
"This were great help to lead me through the toddler years!"
"The best book out there!"
"Great follow-up to Baby Wise."
"The series “On becoming *” is great for new parents."
"Can not live without ANY of these baby wise books."
Best School Safety & Violence

Early childhood educators, professionals, and families will find the latest research and information on many topics of significant concern, including food safety, emergency and disaster preparedness, childhood obesity, children's mental health, bullying, resilience, chronic and acute health conditions, environmental quality, and children with special medical needs. Professor Marotz has authored numerous invited book chapters in national and international publications about children's health and nutrition, legal issues, and environmental safety. She has been interviewed for numerous articles about children's health and nutrition and parenting that have appeared in national trade magazines, has served as a consultant for children's museums and training film productions, has presented extensively at international, national, and state conferences, and continues to hold appointments on national, state, and local committees and initiatives that advocate on behalf of children and their families.
Reviews
Find Best Price at Amazon"I have had textbooks that didn't have the key terms in the index but had seemingly irrelevant topics listed, but this book has a very thorough index which is a plus!"
"The text was a good size and included a variety of vivid diagrams and pictures throughout."
"It's pretty informative and i found myself learning things i didn't know about healthy eating."
"Great guide for my kids look.."
"I know this is technically a textbook but I thought it would be easier to read."
"Very informational."
Best Childhood Education & Reference

You know you love your child. Discover your child’s love language Assist your child in successful learning Use the love languages to correct and discipline more effectively Build a foundation of unconditional love for your child. I wish every parent, grandparent and educator had The 5 Love Languages of Children (The Secret to Loving Children Effectively) to read. I have been a lover of the 5 love languages since I first stumbled upon it and I love that this helps in opening the door when dealing with children. Each child is different so I love the practical and useful ideas not just in loving them and making sure they know that they are loved but for discipline and everyday interactions." You love your child, but does your child feel loved? Every child has a unique way of feeling loved. Use the love languages to help your child learn best Discipline and correct more lovingly and effectively.
Reviews
Find Best Price at Amazon"The love languages (Words of Affirmation, Physical Touch, Quality Time, Acts of Service, and Gifts) are the same. Also, there were sections devoted to parenting philosophy and the nature of children whereas the original book focused more on the spouse and romantic love relationships. Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell had plenty of good and wise things to say about raising children and I highlighted up a storm. -Affection and love mean expressing appreciation for the very being of a child, for those characteristics and abilities that are part of the total package of the person. The goal is that the child would reach a level of maturity that will allow him one day to function as a responsible adult in society. While I without a doubt knew that both of my parents loved me I definitely grew up in a household where punishment was the main form of discipline. It's an information packed book with easy concepts to implement into your daily life in hopes that your children will feel more loved."
"I have used the concepts presented in the original 5 Love Languages book with my clients for many years. However, it can be a bit of a challenge for clients to translate the concepts presented in that book to interactions with their children."
"Great book!"
"If you wanted to, you read the entire book in one sitting."
"Great sound advice for communicating love to my kids, it's helped me better understand myself and my family better."
"This book opened my eyes and help me understand my kids better ...and myself!"
"Love this book-- just finished it."
"In changing our perspective and, subsequently, out technique, we have noticed a marked improvement in out son's behavior."
Best Parent Participation in Education

John Taylor Gatto’s radical treatise on public education, a New Society Publishers bestseller for 25 years, continues to advocate for the unshackling of children and learning from formal schooling. Thirty years of award-winning teaching in New York City's public schools led John Gatto to the sad conclusion that compulsory governmental schooling does little but teach young people to follow orders as cogs in the industrial machine.
Reviews
Find Best Price at Amazon"Reading this in high school really opens your eyes!"
"This book this for the ones who care about education."
"[...]. Gatto also wrote a more objective and penetrating history of American Education[...]. While these books are provided for free by their authors and publishers, I recommend a purchase in order to support their important work."
"Explains why the U.S. is failing compared to the rest of the world."
"The author states learning is maximized by taking on a 1000 internships, active participation in the community, and periods of isolated reflection. Internship implies sharing information and knowledge with a potential employee, aimed at increasing their professional capability, before employment. Periods of isolated reflection allow the student to meditate on the principles and information they have learned. Abstraction, synthesis, and integration mental process allow the information to evolve into other ideas or principles. The education system values: competition, intimidation, and control more than principles of democracy. Many of the social problems of teen pregancy, drugs, and violence are associated with the rich rather than the poor. If your child thinks its ok, to spend hours down in their room listening to their music, refusing to eat at the dinner table, or participate in family activities, you start to wonder. If your child was previously curious about things and often worked on individual projects and research but suddenly stop, you wonder."
"A short group of essays themed around the failure and in fact the doomed nature of compulsory schooling run by government."
"Read John Taylor Gatto, even if you choose the public school system, to examine your own attitudes and assumptions and those of the people in the education system in the United States."
Best Elementary School

You know you love your child. Discover your child’s love language Assist your child in successful learning Use the love languages to correct and discipline more effectively Build a foundation of unconditional love for your child. I wish every parent, grandparent and educator had The 5 Love Languages of Children (The Secret to Loving Children Effectively) to read. I have been a lover of the 5 love languages since I first stumbled upon it and I love that this helps in opening the door when dealing with children. Each child is different so I love the practical and useful ideas not just in loving them and making sure they know that they are loved but for discipline and everyday interactions." You love your child, but does your child feel loved? Every child has a unique way of feeling loved. Use the love languages to help your child learn best Discipline and correct more lovingly and effectively.
Reviews
Find Best Price at Amazon"The love languages (Words of Affirmation, Physical Touch, Quality Time, Acts of Service, and Gifts) are the same. Also, there were sections devoted to parenting philosophy and the nature of children whereas the original book focused more on the spouse and romantic love relationships. Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell had plenty of good and wise things to say about raising children and I highlighted up a storm. -Affection and love mean expressing appreciation for the very being of a child, for those characteristics and abilities that are part of the total package of the person. The goal is that the child would reach a level of maturity that will allow him one day to function as a responsible adult in society. While I without a doubt knew that both of my parents loved me I definitely grew up in a household where punishment was the main form of discipline. It's an information packed book with easy concepts to implement into your daily life in hopes that your children will feel more loved."
"I have used the concepts presented in the original 5 Love Languages book with my clients for many years. However, it can be a bit of a challenge for clients to translate the concepts presented in that book to interactions with their children."
"Great book!"
"If you wanted to, you read the entire book in one sitting."
"Informative Book."
"Great sound advice for communicating love to my kids, it's helped me better understand myself and my family better."
"This book opened my eyes and help me understand my kids better ...and myself!"
"Love this book-- just finished it."